This post is an update to the question I posted in
my last post. I asked the question when and why feminism became such a bad
word.
I found my answer speaking with Michelle Boucher
this week. In our conversation we were speaking about feminism and I ask her
why she thought feminism has such a bad rap now.
First she said that she started hearing feminism as
being a bad thing about 15 to 10 years ago.
Then we began talking about a few of her theories as
to why it has happened. There were two theories that I thought were the best
and most logical.
The first theory
is that women my age no longer feel that there is a need for feminism. I agree
with this I have always had my independence and rights; I have always been told
that I am equal to men.
I have my independence and I have my rights, but
even now women are not treated as equal to men.
We may see and believe that we are because we are
told we are but we aren’t. Women still make less than men for doing the exact
same job, women still don’t have equal legislation, there are hardly any women
in powerful positions, and until recently women weren’t allowed to hold active
combat titles.
None of this is talked about often within the
general public. It is ignored. Instead women and men focus on the independence and
rights women have now.
I am not saying that the rights and freedom we have
gained is something to stub my nose at, but we are still not equal.
People may feel that feminism is no longer needed,
but it is and the 4th wave of feminism proves that.
The second theory about why feminism has gotten such
a bad rap was because people have an image of radical feminism stuck in their
minds as the normal type of feminist and feminism.
This radical feminist and feminism to the minds in
many looks like a man hating, non-shaving, single minded, and one issue voting
woman.
I admit that a few feminists took it to that level
and because society likes to judge the words and actions of a few and label
many by that. People became turned off by feminism.
However, most feminists are not man hating and they
do shave. In fact they are just concerned and active people who want women to
be equal to men and treated better or the same as men.
They are calm, level-headed, nice, intelligent,
people.
A strong leader for the 4th wave of
feminism needs to emerge and create a new image to put into people’s minds. A
positive, truer image of what feminism stands for and how most feminists are.
That is how I am going to end this post. Have a
great rest of the week!
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